Author Archives: D.R. Carlson

An Emotional Chart for the Rest of Us

Men of Fuel

PLEASE NOTE: While LCPS are closed tomorrow we ARE meeting in the morning.

This week I spent some time reviewing the North Point feelings wheel that was sent out.  While there were many words/feelings I immediately identified with I am not sure I have ever found myself to be cheeky.  As a matter of fact, before spending time looking at that wheel I think my wheel would have looked like the one below.  I bet I am not alone, which I think is part of the reason this series is so needed.

Most of us tend to neglect positive habits or behaviors that will strengthen our emotional health. That’s because it’s a lot easier—at least in the short-term—to pretend everything is okay than to make the effort to establish new, healthy habits. But when we avoid change, we’re not the only ones who suffer. The unhealthy emotions and behaviors we sow now are eventually reaped by the people we love most.

See you in the am

D.R.


EMOTIONAL HYGIENE

Men of Fuel

Many of us learned from an early age to hide what we were feeling from other people. We got the message that showing our emotions made us look weak. In time, we became so skilled at hiding what we feel, we even learned to hide our emotions from ourselves. But hiding isn’t a sign of courage or strength.  If we want to grow, we must stop saying, “It’s fine,” and start being honest—with ourselves and others—about what’s going on inside.

Can you imagine your holiday get together if your entire family could take part in this series?  This Friday we can start with at least one member of your family: You.

Regards

D.R.


Justin Elam at FUEL

Very excited about tomorrow morning.  Justin Elam from Northpoint will be with us in the am and it is a topic you don’t want to miss.  Justin will be speaking about difficult relationships in our lives.  Anyone got one of those?  You should come.  Know someone that does?  You should invite them.

On a personal note, Justin Elam is one half of the Northpoint duo who along with John Woodall have been the two men that have fielded ever call over the past 13 years that would have gone to my dad.  The wisdom Justin will bring tomorrow is something you don’t want to miss.

Let’s give Justin a huge Fuel welcome in the am.  Please try to arrive (in the room) a little early so that we can start right at 7:00.


DAVID Series Wrap

On Friday we learned that the foundation of faith is not answered prayers or happy endings. It’s always a mistake to wrap your faith in God around the fulfillment of your dreams or even the answers to your prayers. Dreams that don’t come true say nothing of God’s faithfulness or activity. You aren’t forsaken. Declare the words of 2 Samuel 15: “If I find favor in the Lord’s eyes, he will bring me back. Let him do to me whatever seems good to him.”

That does it for the David series and leaves us with ONLY 2 weeks left of Fuel before our summer break.  You don’t want to miss the one in two weeks as that’s when we break out the breakfast buffet and wrap it for the year.  However you really don’t want to miss this coming Friday as Justin Elam from Northpoint will be joining us.  Same Northpoint wisdom, NOT delivered via video.


Easter Message Recap

Last week we watched Northpoint’s Easter message.  Many who were there indicated that Andy’s message was the most informative Easter message they had ever seen.
 
Some of the things we all learned:
 
1. All credible scholars agree that there was an individual named Jesus and that He was crucified by the Romans.
 
2. All credible scholars agree that there was an individual named Paul who was foundational in establishing the early church.
 
3. While there may be some disagreement on how many books the Apostle Paul wrote, all credible scholars agree that Paul did in fact write seven letters that make up part of our New Testament.
 
4. There are no claims that Paul was crazy or was lying.
 
5. The longest amount of time between Jesus being crucified and Paul preaching about the resurrection is 20 years.
 
6. The shortest amount of time between Jesus being crucified and Paul saying he spoke to someone (Peter and James) about the resurrection was 3 years.
 
7. To say that the resurrection is a myth that grew out of decades of people telling the story over and over is not an option.  
 
Oh, and Mary Magdalene was NOT a prostitute.
 
(Andy Stanley provided 1-7.  Stefan Raab provided us with the final gem).